Ugghh, you guys dating is kind of crazy.
So I went on the date like a week and a half ago, guy was nice, I ended up going to his house to hang out that Saturday, went to church with him that Sunday. I met his daughter, which was kind of weird, I just hope he doesn't let everyone he meets meet his daughter, lets call him Diver (because that's kind of his job.
Diver is what I kind of like in men. He's sweet, affectionate, smiles a lot, makes me laugh. He's HUGE, like he weight lifts a lot and his arms are like the size of my waist, but he looks big and tough and he's super sweet. My biggest issue is the whole talking on the phone thing that I hate and his public support for a presidential candidate who I happen to this is a moron. His schedule is also very busy and I have no interest in diving and I think he'll try to get me interested. I HATE open water especially going under it! Other than that he's nice.
There's another guy that I kind of started dating in right after the girls and I moved out, lets call him Known (he's actually the ex-husband of a friend, a friend who hasn't spoken to me since she found out we were getting divorced). Known likes to take me on dates, ignore me for 3 weeks, text me again, takes me on a date, ignore me for 3 weeks, repeat and repeat. I actually made plans to see him Wednesday, but I never know if he'll show up or not.
Then yesterday, after both Diver and Known ditched our plans I went out with Nice Guy. He wrote to me on Match weeks ago with a generic "hey, how are you?" to which I ignored. Then he wrote me another message Saturday that started with "I'm so sorry for the generic message, let me try again". Hooked. We went out for ice cream and ended up talking for 3 hours. He has two kids, actually lives right across the street from me, gave me a hug good bye, and texted me about an hour later about how he'd like to see me again. I have no complaints about this guy, I always have complaints. He's kind of shy, said that meeting people on Match is totally awkward (agree!), and was a gentleman, the other two pretty much try to make out with me in public and this guy didn't even try! He also seems like a great dad, he wouldn't even try to get me to make plans with him on weekends he has his kids, he focuses on them those weekends which is nice to hear.
So I'm keeping my options open (don't worry, not sleeping with all these guys and the girls are not meeting any of them!). Ideally it would be nice to take all the good qualities from all of them and just make one man, but we'll see how it all works out!